Here is a list of recommended books and some options of where to get them from. 
I have read all of these and can personally recommend them. 
I will add to this list as new resources become apparent to me.
Enjoy.

Feel the Fear and Do it anyway. 
Possibly the greatest book ever written. 
Life changing for me...



http://www.fishpond.co.nz/Books/Feel-Fear-and-Do-it-Anyway-Susan-J-Jeffers/9780091907075

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Being Happy. 
Another classic and easy to read 

http://www.fishpond.co.nz/Books/Being-Happy-Andrew-Matthews/9789810006648

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The Chimp Paradox. 
Fascinating, helps you understand all the different 'you' in your brain

http://www.fishpond.co.nz/Books/Chimp-Paradox-Dr-Steve-Peters/9780091935580

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Winners Bible. 
Learn to understand and reprogram your brain



http://www.fishpond.co.nz/Books/Winners-Bible-Dr-Kerry-Spackman/9781869509699

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Why Men Don't Listen & Women Can't Read Maps. 
Physiology of the brain - why we are different, so we can stop fighting...

http://www.fishpond.co.nz/Books/Why-Men-Dont-Listen-and-Women-Cant-Read-Maps-Allan-Pease-Barbara-Pease/9780752846194

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Mars and Venus. 
The psychologists view, which comes to the same conclusions as the physiologists...



http://www.fishpond.co.nz/Books/Men-are-from-Mars-Women-are-from-Venus-John-Gray/9780007152599

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